Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Sole Survivors

Right around this holiday time in 1999 I strolled into Red's Shoe Barn in Dover, New Hampshire. Red's is just what you might imagine it to be. The building is red and looks a little like a barn, but inside is aisles upon aisles of discount shoes. I had just moved there at the beginning of the month and went into the store looking for a pair of winter boots. I never did find any boots that I liked, but while I was there I ended up purchasing a pair of brown dress shoes. For me, shoes are not an impulse buy or a fashion accessory. The extent of my shoe closet is black dress shoes, brown dress shoes, golf shoes, sneakers, and slippers... that's it. As you can tell, if I bought a pair of brown shoes it was clearly because I needed them.

The years and miles have taken their toll on those size 9's from Red's. They've seen too many basketball and hockey games to count and been x-rayed at airport security checkpoints across the country. They've endured temperatures well below zero and above 100, and survived both blizzards and downpours. They've attended at least 18 different conventions in 14 different states and two countries, funerals for people who left far too early in life, and one memorable evening meeting former President Bill Clinton. The suede has been stained by beer spilled over a raucous laugh with friends and the thick rubber soles have been worn traversing miles of hallways and concourses. Through it all, these Dexter's took everything in stride and bounced back the next day for more.

But the time had finally come to retire these always reliable friends of the feet. When I brought them home that wintry night, I never would have imagined the places they would go or the experiences they would have. This past weekend I made my way to the Rockport Outlet Store and purchased a new pair of brown shoes. I can only hope that this pair has as many memorable (and hopefully joyous) miles in them as my last purchase.

17 comments:

Leah said...

A wonderful post! So poignant, Bob.

Megan said...

Go, new shoes! Make more stories for Bob and for us!

Gig said...

Loyal, faithful, always there for you...RIP to your Brown Dress Shoes!!

kylie said...

so, what will you do with them now?
the bin is a rather inglorious end!

have a wonderful Christmas

much love
k

Suzanne said...

Hummmmmmmmmmmmm.
Retired leather.
Hummmmmmmmmmmmm.
More leather.
Hummmmmmmmmmmmm.
I've heard flip flops are the new leather.

Hey, momma didn't give me these genes for nothin' baby (yes, I do read my blog!). *Hugs Bob and plants a big smooch on cheek.*

Megan, no momma didn't raise no idiot either (yes I know that's a double negative!) I was conducting research. Here's what I discovered:

1) He's clean shaven.
2) He smells good.
3) He's soft.
4) He's lovable.
5) I can't remember what he was wearing. Hummmmmmmmm. But he wasn't like IV at the Wild Onion. Naked. I remember fabric.
6) Okay, so if the wedding's in June we should book a wedding planner fairly quickly.
7) Don't worry, Bob has new shoes. Thank God you can save some money.

You're welcome.

XO

Queen Goob said...

You didn't just throw them away did you? That would be like kicking a friend to the curb....

I know; I'm a softie and just a "tad" sentimental.

Great story Bob!

Leah said...

p.s. a propos what Goob said--Sarge can never bear to part with his dear old friends, and as a result we have so many retired men's shoes about the house--even his boots from army basic training! You sound like you're more of a minimalist. Good for you!

Anonymous said...

Those soles have lots of stories to tell...lovely post.

Hope you have a Merry Christmas...Bah Humbug! ;-)

XOXO
RC

Megan said...

Merry Christmas, bestest Bob!

Anonymous said...

When I was a kid, parents used to "bronze" baby's first shoes. You could bring an old idea back with your old shoes. Worth a thought.

Have a great Christmas, my friend.

farmgirl said...

Bob, I have an ancient song called "This Shirt" that reminds me of your shoes. I mean the story of your shoes. It's about the fact that we can go through life with a certain item (shoes, a shirt) and it becomes a talisman, a symbol of our experiences...your shoes have served you well. Would that all of our possessions could be as sturdy and reliable.
Bob, a bright and joyful Christmas to you...

Kookaburra said...

G'day Bob,
That was a great story about your shoes. You should have them bronzed it would be a shame to consign them to the trash can.

MERRY CHRISTMAS.

Mark.

Attila the Mom said...

I'm going to go hug my shoes now. I've never really appreciated them before. ;-)

Happy Holidays to you and yours!

Suzanne said...

MERRY CHRISTMAS BOBBY!!!!!!!!!

BLOTTIE! ;)

j said...

Merry Christmas, Bob!

just bob said...

I think I'll keep them in the back of my closet for a while, at least until my next move. Thanks for all the nice words... just bob

a. said...

those shoes look comfy