Thursday, April 16, 2009

Blogoversary

It all started one year ago today. I don't really remember why I began blogging. I was aware of what blogging was, but never really considered starting one of my own until someone I knew started one. Being a computer geek and having an affinity for writing, I'm surprised it took me that long. I was doing it for me, having no idea that anyone would either read it or heaven forbid actually follow it. Did I hope I would become an overnight sensation? No. Did I want others to read it? Deep down, sure I did.

It has kind of been all over the place since then. Sometimes funny, sometimes political, sometimes reflective, sometimes depressing, but always genuine. For the most part, you never really have to guess what kind of mood or mental disposition I am in. I feel like I've written good pieces, things just to fill up space, and had a fleeting romance with temporary fencing securing temporary fencing. You've learned about my obsession with lobster footwear, a never ending battle with the demons that occupy my brain, and some of the other things that make up just bob.

I've "met" a great group of supportive people. How I found you, or you found me, or why you continue to put up with me I don't know. I never would have imagined people from as far away as Australia would become friends (and even send Tim Tams). I never could have expected to form the kind of bonding relationships I have with all of you. The openness with which you share your lives, your successes and failures, your hopes and dreams, is really quite amazing. The way all of you have accepted me with all of my faults and ever changing mental states is heartwarming and means so much to me. The mutual caring that goes on amongst this group is inspiring. You're a great group of people and hold a special place in my heart and thoughts.

So, day one of year two starts here. I don't know what direction this blog will take, just as I don't know what direction my life will take. It may not be the most interesting or glitzy existence, but it's mine. I'll continue to bring you along, if you care to keep following. I'm humbled and honored that you take the time to read, comment, and care. For something that started as a vehicle to vent and write, it certainly has become much more. That's because of the wonderful people who make it that way.

15 comments:

Kookaburra said...

G'day :),

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

I see you have been very busy of late judging by all your recent Posts. I really enjoy your Blog and thru your web site I have learned a lot about the U.S. You have a terrific sense of humour and I often get a chuckle from what I read here.

Best wishes for the year ahead.
Keep on Bloggin'!

See ya,
Mark.

Megan said...

Happy Blogoversary, Bob!

Megan said...

Oh, and I found you through Queen Goob who I found through Paddy in B.A. who I found through VE who I found through OPE who I found through Gatochy who I found through Piper who I found through Damian who I found because of the making of Indy 4.

Whew.

Unknown said...

Happy Anniversary Bob! I have really enjoyed your blog and will continue to be a part of your blogiverse!
Hugs!

Leah said...

Happy Blogoversary dear Just Bob!

I'm so very glad I've met you too.

But I'm not sure how I "found" you...I'll have to give it some thought.

Gig said...

Happy Blogoversary!!

I don't remember how I got here...probably via Blottie...but I sure am glad I did. Thank you for being a part of a great group of people that have found each other. I always look forward to seeing what is going in Bob's World. We couldn't keep the Onion open if you weren't there to keep "some people" under control,LOL!

Keep up the great writing...and btw...just where are those socks?
*walks off mumbling, lobster socks where are you?*

Gig,

kylie said...

this is a beautiful post bob.

i dont know how i got here, just saw your name on comments about the place and then i left that silly "hi suze" cos i knew she would be here.

i'm sorry you're not feeling so good and i hope you get the all clear from the docs.
of course, if you do get the all clear, you are left with the frustrating question of what is actually wrong and how to change it :)

happy anniversary

love
k

Suzanne said...

Bob, God, you know I adore you. (Too many commas?) But I do. This has been such a wonderful ride and to think you only got pissed at me once! (Hell, I get pissed at me more than that.) And to think, it's only been a year. Wow, really? I feel as if I've known you forever. It's nice to think you still love me and me you after all this time (only one year), but I'm interested in knowing how you'll feel after 10! *Bob is observed kicking Blottie clear off the freakin' planet! Her PPT too.* How unkind.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY DEAR FRIEND!!!

Oh, and how I got here? Hummmmmmmmm. What do you think? Hummmmmmmm. IV? I think IV. But think you arrived at my blog first. Am I wrong? You would know. Was it the Wild Onion? It takes balls for a man to arrive at the Wild Onion!!! Yes, you should check. *Observes Bob looking down.* Yup...you still got um!

XO Blottie

P.S.
Hi Kooka
Hi Megan
Hi Robyn (HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!)
Hi Leah
Hi Giggie
Hi Kylie

I love you all dearly. You too Bob. Get well soon. If not I'm sending Megan! TWP!

just bob said...

Thanks Mark... not all Americans are as messed up as I am.

Megarific... whew, you took the long way to get here, but I'm glad you stayed.

Robyn... thanks and Happy B-day!

Leah... thanks for hanging out here.

Gig... I don't mind working behind the bar at the Onion. It's a lot more fun than my real job. The socks haven't started their journey yet.

Hi Kylie... some how it always comes back to Blottie doesn't it?

Hi, Suzy. You, can use, as many, commas, as you, want. And I'd never kick you off the planet... there wouldn't be anyone to feed the ferals!

Suzanne said...

How does it all come back to Blottie?

I walked into the corner market tonight and the owner said "Hi Suzanne." I asked how he always remembers my name? He replied "Because you're the nicest person whoever walked into this establishment." I stopped in my tracks. I did. I turned and said "Are you kidding?" He said "No." I said "Do you know what that means to me?" He said "I can only imagine because you've brought so much joy to this place...there must be so much love in your heart...and you have a smile that lights the world." I love this man. We've discussed politics, love, life, marrages. He's Indian and recently went to India to attend a week long wedding. When he returned I enjoyed the story. I enjoy him so much more than he me. And so to hear his words just killed me. I felt so humbled. He's a good person and not because he said what he said. He's simply a good person. I've talked about him in previous blogs, so those of you who follow know I adore him. So this isn't written because he said something nice about me. He's simply a good man.

I care deeply about people and animals. Do I behave perfectly? No. I'm so not pefect. I'm just not. I think because I feel so deeply, I behave in ways others might not and say things others might not. I'm often wrong. I often have to apologize. I'm often not forgiven. But I'm me. And I realize tonight, that's okay.

For some reason I'm here. I'm meant to be in all of your lives. I don't know why, but perhaps to prepare us for the next. This life for most of us seems a struggle. Perhaps the next will be bliss! That is my hope. It's also my hope the feral problem will be solved by someone smarter than me because animals don't deserve to be abandoned. I've rescued so many and they all break my heart with kindness and love. I'm lucky. I remind myself every day. I'm lucky to have all of you.

And Bob, you know I love you so. I'm crying and know you can't handle that, but what the hell. People feel. I'm just me honey, commas and all! Thanks for overlooking all the commas and for understanding ferals need love. I just adore you to death.

With so much love,
Me

Karen ^..^ said...

Happy Blogoversary, Bob. I'm glad I found you too. We all offer something unique here in blog land. Unconditional friendship. That's rare, and good.

Hope all is well with you and I hope you are feeling better soon.

Thanks for putting up with my bossiness. Now make sure you get the hell out of work on time and not one second longer. <3

a. said...

Happy birthday to your blog, Bob. Now if only we knew when to wish YOU a happy birthday.

Suzanne said...

Wow, I wrote one hell of alot last night. What was I drinking?! Don't worry, I'm not expecting a response!!! I was going to delete, but hell, it's too funny!

I was just walking through the living room and the news is on. A guy paid his back taxes in one dollar bills. All $7,000!!! There's a city ordinance that states all back taxes have to be paid in cash. City workers had to stay past closing to count and verify the payment. The gentleman told reporters he didn't pay with one dollar bill in retaliation.

God I love life!

XO

Suzanne said...

Oh, one more thing. Please excuse all spelling errors in previous post. No, not the one above, the one above that!

Anonymous said...

Awww, Bob. I'm sorry I missed your blogoversary but I sure am glad that I met you and that you keep on putting up with me too!

Here's to another year of blogging!